That's normal. Most people think that it means you should break up, but it actually takes alot of work to keep a relationship. It's easy at first, but it ALWAYS gets tough eventually. You know this already, I'm sure. And it's hard sometimes, but that doesn't mean you won't feel that sparkly feeling again. It still happens, just your head isn't in the clouds anymore. Just cause you hit a rough spot doesn't mean that it will always be like that. Hang in there. Best thing to do is talk. Unfortunately, he'll have to be open to communication too. Gah, tired. Too early for me to be tired.
He has this smell.....it's like bowling alley & sweat & Brian, and I love it. I could never do without that smell.
I know exactly what you mean.
I had the same problem with my last boyfriend, but like it says above, that usually happens after a while. And as it turned out, he was just really stressed about his work and his relationships with friends and where he was going in life, etc. and it had nothing to do with me.
I can't say "Oh, I'm sure you're imagining it" or anything like that, but I am sorry you have to feel like this. Hope things start looking up.
oh sweetie *hugs* If you need to just vent at someone you can find me on AIM as GloomCookie613 and don't hesitate if you want to just rant, rave, or break down. *hugs* I know how that feels, but I go along with someone else who commented, when the newness wears off, yall just gotta talk it out and work hard on it. Scott and I almost went down the shitter that way, but we managed to talk it out and work hard on our relationship. Try talking to him about how you feel sweetie, if he cares about you, he'll listen and let you know how he's feeling too. *supermegasnuggledoodles*
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I know exactly what you mean.
I had the same problem with my last boyfriend, but like it says above, that usually happens after a while. And as it turned out, he was just really stressed about his work and his relationships with friends and where he was going in life, etc. and it had nothing to do with me.
I can't say "Oh, I'm sure you're imagining it" or anything like that, but I am sorry you have to feel like this. Hope things start looking up.
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of course i can't really relate...but im hoping for you, know that.
talk to me online chessie, we'll have our routine check up/deep convo.
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<3333 you.
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