what do you think?

[leen8709]

so, before class luca, alejandro and i had a very interesting conversation. they were telling me that girls have a certain power over guys and we can manipulate them however we want. i think its the opposite actually. i think guys have this weird power over girls. ex: guys using us for sex, getting bored, and then dropping us on our ass leaving us

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[steph8659]

okay.. i'm not in a deep thought-provoked mood right now so, for short, girls only have "power" over a guy when the guys stupid and whipped.

[leen8709]

yea but like...before they start going out. in the words of alejandro, "a hot girl can make a guy do anything. and she doesnt even have to be that hot."

[steph8659]

eh, i dont know if i agree with that.. its sort of a shallow thing to say

[leen8709]

i kno...i dont agree with it either...i was just better clarifying my original statement (so many fancy words in that sentence)

[anonymous]

nope, girls deff d it more to guys,
no matter wut u say

[ted_jesus]

okay, there are so many more ways in which MOST girls manipulate US. And i dont know anybody who's "guys using us for sex, getting bored, and then dropping us on our ass leaving us alone and confused."
i didnt....none of my friends come to mind....i can name several friends who were "dropped on their ass and left alone and confused" by girls...the point is...youre right, girls can manipulate us very easily. its like shooting fish in a barrel. its mean.
But...thats not to say theyre ALL ...ALWAYS ...going to be like that...
and no, i dont think stephs manipulative like that.

[leen8709]

yes i realize this is based on stereotypes...but sometimes (keyword sometimes) stereotypes are true. im not accusing you or anyone else specifically though

[ted_jesus]

ya! girls are never accused of being whupped ever!
but also guys are way hornier, perhaps not all at once, but we think about sex like, constantly, in fact im thinking of it now
as i was saying (still thinking about sex) girls totally have that power more often than guys do (mmmmm titties) i am also ridiculously immature (SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX!) but i tihnk my point is valid (i made no point, i have a hard on)
why is it that the male body doesnt hold enough blood to appropriately use both his brain and his penis at the same time

[lordofthewaffle]

I believe it's all dependant on the person, regardless of sex.

If you're to be manipulated, then there's likely something lacking in one of the two of you. Either that person sees something exploitable, and takes advantage of you (dumped and confused case), or in the other case, then you have a weakness that you're not afraid to pronounce to garner attention (I-just-need-anyone-to-care case).

It doesn't matter who is boy, or who is girl (or...both...)

However, that's an extremely negative view of the matter.

Power of one over another indicates an imbalance of personailty and compatability that may or may not be able to be worked out.

Just my opinion!

[steph8659]

props to you, walther.. that was well put and i fully agree with everything you stated

[lordofthewaffle]

Just doing my job. Ding.

[leen8709]

ding. i agree. that was well said

[yourenotthe1]

i control my boyfriend. enough said.

[steph8659]

thats not.. very nice. but then again i dont know you so i wont judge your actions or way of handling your relationship.

[yourenotthe1]

just to let you know, my boyfriend was sitting next to me when i wrote that from his computer. and hes the one that gives it up. someone has to make the decisions in the relationship. theres nothing wrong with that unless i abuse the power. ex: if he asks if he can spend the night with the guys ill tell him its fine because i already get to see him everyother night. he doesnt have to ask me but he does anyway. guys are all capable of making their own decisions as are girls. you can only be manipulated if you let yourself be.