if anyone has any wishes to spare...

[legohead]

...would you be willing to spend one on me? mostly just wondering if you can close your eyes for second and make a wish that goes like this: "please let erin figure her life out." and if you have any suggestions that belong in this category, please do tell. (and thank you

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[ilexcassine]

Done

[basilwomack]

done. I thought you had figured out your life at least somewhat, when you chose to go into counseling as a profession. You're already one step ahead of me, Master Binkley.

I think worse than making a bad decision, is staying unhappy at an impasse. So just go and do it, whatever 'it' is. If it's wrong, you'll know it and can make a change then. If it's right, you know you've made a good decision and can be happy. Worse than either of these, is just getting stuck and staying where you are and doing the things that are causing you unhappiness and making no changes at all. Fear of wasting money making a bad decision, is a bad reason not to try something. Ha, now I'm just talking to myself!

but I am in this stuck stage myself, so what do I know? At the very least, we should all go camping sometime.

[legohead]

much appreciation to you both for your thoughts and wisdom - i needed to hear all of these things...