Baby its been so long, that even the rose's hips are turnin' me on...

[leishpod]

So a lot has happened in the last couple of weeks. I found out RIGHT before I almost caved and got back together with him that Andy DID cheat on me while he was in NZ. Awesome. He told the girl (A really old friend) that we'd broken up already, when we hadn't. He's SUCH a cunt. So he's gone. forgotten. Erased from my phone, email, life, etc

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[purple_wolf]

Leish hun you're post is scarily similar to how I've been feeling the last 24 hours or so.

I'm kind of like your David in that I want to do the random dating again. But I started talking to this guy Chris from OKC the other night and we've just clicked in an amazingly electric way. He doesn't like the idea of random dating but has told me he will wait until I'm ready.

We keep saying we want to take it slowly. But at the same time I feel like I've already fallen completely head over heals for him. I'm meeting him for the first time tonight and I already want to cancel the potential dates with the other guys I've been talking to the last few weeks.

I really really wish things could be simple as well.

*hugs* I hope things work out the way you want them too.

[leishpod]

yeah it sucks, main thing that gets me is that he's on so much about how much he likes me, and I'm just like 'dude. if you told me not to see other people, I wouldn't, it's all up to you'

So yeah. it sucks. he slept with someone else last night (after I slept with him yesterday, ffs). it makes me feel ill.

[comedychick]

Oh man that sounds like shithouse situation #575870! But... and I don't know if this is something you would feel okay with, but I'll suggest it anyway. If you're happy to wait even just a couple weeks, maybe he'll come around, after he's had those flings/one night stands, and realise being with you is more important than that?

I get the anguish of having to try to be friends with a guy you really like. That's one of the hardest things ever. And the media tells us that guys are the only sex that have to deal with that and men are happy to fuck anything with a vagina. What bullshit!

He sounds better than your last Andy. At least he's honest with you about wanting to sleep with other women. Ugh. I don't envy your situation, but I wish you all the best figuring out what to do!

[bekscilla]

When I broke up with my ex, and started seeing Stu, I wanted to do the random-sex thing too. That lasted maybe a week or two before i realised how much i liked stu.

See how things go, I hope it turns out for the best!!

[leishpod]

lets hope so!

[pixiequeen10thk]

Oh nightmare! I was actually (sort of) in his position when I met Phil. I'd just been out of a long and destructive relationship and wasn't keen on starting anything properly with anyone. But in the end I thought, hell this is too good to pass up. Yes this is the man I'm about to marry. I really hope he figures out what I did. *Hugs*

[madhowan]

I can't offer anything helpful, but I hope it works out for you!

(Also, registering jealously at your being in Melbourne and being able to go to Comfest, and going to see the Universe.)