Yes, I *have* asked to be kissed in a certain way, normally because that other person is, well, doing it wrong :P If they still aren't on board with my instructions after awhile, I simply avoid doing it. Some people are great lovers and just bad kissers.
Kissing instructions are necessary. If you don't like the way they kiss "out of the box" you're in trouble, but if a slight modification would drive you wild, it's gotta be told. Different styles of kissing are appropriate for different occasions, too.
yes, i have stopped to take a breath and then guided the next kissing session. i suppose it really depends on whether the other person will allow it and go with it. more than not, they are willing.
Yes, I've asked, yes, it's up for discussion, yes it's up for just trying new things out in terms of kissing without asking because every variation shouldn't be an automatic check in. Hard/Painful/Sudden: maybe it makes sense to sometimes telegraph those moves. It really depends on how things have gone so far.
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