Emotions...a very deep and strong part of life. Girls tend to be more in touch with it, or at least stereotypically supposed to. Anyways, every wonder why guy's just don't show their emotions? Well, everyone already know's why, but what I want to ask is, if a guy goes with a girl to a chick flick or every emotional film in which the guy does shed a tear....does the girl want to know the truth that the guy really was emotionally moved? What I'm trying to say is, if both were comfortable enough with each other to know if the other is really unconfortable to stop....would you rather...i have no idea how to say this, other than, do you enjoy the hunt? The want to know the truth? Would you like the guy to lie at first, saying it was nothing, he didn't cry, and then later admit he did? Or would you like a straight answer that he did? In both scenario's, I can see both good and bad come out of it. Reluctant answer, with some girls, allow them to feel somewhat more mature that they are more in tune with themselves and have the ability to bring out the inner, less seen, part of the guy. The guy can make the girl feel mightier, more confident about herself, or at least give her a lifting feeling that she has succeded in "bringing" out that feeling. I put quatation marks cus some guy's like teasing the girl. For a straight out answer, the girl see's a sensitive side of the guy and in which she see's that he is ok with that. Which brings me to the main question I was talking about, do you girls like the hunt, the chase, the great challange to overcome?
Of course, I was watching tv when I got this questing, and I stopped halfway through this beginning part to continue watching and just came back. So..the continuity of this isn't really smooth, but it was never.....
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well, i just realized that I just had this small rant on, and just for the heck of it, keeping it in. Anyways, i know everyone know's this, but just because I'm bored and I can....
There sure is a fine line between knowing in your mind what you want and knowing in your heart what you want.