Any one got a Rock I can crawl under….

[leofemale1973]

Ok so here is my drama. I have a Very Very good friend (LOL yes I have those) Anyways this friend kind of hooked me up with this guy. So now that it is to late to fix, I realize that this friend was really into this guy. I knew she liked him but I did not relies the extent… It wasn’t until she compared him to the guy I am in love with but cant have

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[ladyfox7oaks]

So... wait.. Friend "A" hooks you up with Guy "B", even though she fancied him herself... and she knows you well enough to know that "Subtle" is NOT a word you know- so she should really have told you "Hands off- I want'im!" -- but she didn't... so NOW she's hurt that you are the one getting his attentions?
(Or are you just THINKING that she's hurt because you are getting his attentions?)

Forgive me - but I think this is a time to USE the UN-Subtlety for which you are known, SIT her down and ask her point blank,--
"DO you or did you fancy this fella? Did you want him? If so- HERE is what's going on in his life right now, just so you are up to speed when I give him YOUR Phone number and tell him that I'm staying with YOU for a few days... after he calls, dear- it's up to you to catch his interest."

(That is- if you're willing to gift wrap him and dump him in the friend's lap. Use the furry hand-cuffs...)

[leofemale1973]

I wish it were that easy. And maybe I am reading her wrong. I do that… But if I am not then it is a WHOLE lot more complicated then I can explain. Nonetheless the guy has her phone number and I don’t honestly know why he is not calling her. Seriously if I know, then at least I could say sorry he is not calling you but this is why.. But I don’t know!!! And maybe I am just over sensitive today. but the last time I talked to her she was telling me about the things in her life, and all seemed good till she asked if I had talked to him and when I said yes I felt like she shut down and then she had phone trouble and had to go…. This is the second time she has had to go after finding out I have talked to him… Now all of these probably are nothing, but I am already having a crappy week and so this just seems to fit right in… More then likely I am just over stressed and these are just coincident… Who knows?

[ladyfox7oaks]

Point... but if she's "shutting down and having phone issues" after asking that question and you answering truthfully, AND she's done this several times... it sounds like she's not being truthful with HERSELF about how she feels for him- and taking it out on YOU isn't cool. Maybe hitting HER with the sledgehammer is what's needed...
Though I think I'd wait for the "Third time" she pulled that little stunt on you- then immediately call her back and call her on it.

[leofemale1973]

I took your advice and just asked... She is not having problems, I just miss read. I told you i do that LOL.. Thanks for the advice.