What I haven't said...
I don’t often write things here, mainly because I feel as though I shouldn’t force details of my life on to others and thus imposition them or make them feel bad. But no-one really reads this anymore so its relatively safe now. I am rambling because I hate facing the truth of my life. I may have fought my way out of the depressive hole I was in,
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Even when you have those good things, it's okay to want more, and to miss the things that have passed. You deserve to have strong friendships in your life, and there's no need to feel guilty for wanting that!
You can call me anytime you like, I'd love to hang out more.
Also, I wrote an entry about some similar feelings I've had lately, for another friend who was going through a tough time drifting apart from friends and experiencing similar family issues to me. It's long and pretty self-indulgent, but it contains any "wisdom" I might have on the similar experiences I've been through lately. I've made it so you can read it now too, if you like. I'ts here. Don't know if it will be helpful at all, but I thought you might like to know that you're not alone in missing the friendships that drift away, and having difficulty finding new close relationships to enjoy.
Here are some more *GIANT HUGS*.
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Please blog. That's why we're LJ friends. So that I can read the details of your life and either pray for you; do something to help; (hopefully) helpfully comment.
We have our own history to explain why we didn't keep in contact. And it's not because you're needy, bad or boring. I'm so sorry for what's going on in your pagan group D: That's really terrible.
You do have a lot of nice things that you've been blessed with. But we thrive in relationships. And when there are no relationships, then it's totally right that you'd be sad about that. So please, don't feel guilty for feeling sad about that.
Wanna hang out on Friday? Would you like me to round up a group of people that you know but have fallen out of contact with to hang out with on Friday evening? Can I help fix this problem? :)
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