i think i'm really good at letting stuff go. my mother, on the other hand, isn't. even when it comes to stuff about dan and his family and that whole mess, she still is pissed and holding a grudge. i'm WAY over it. i told her that i couldn't truly be "over it" and move on w/trent if i still held a grudge and let it bother me. she just doesn't get it.
I understand that. There are family members of mine that could live a lot happier if they could just forgive and move on. I'm getting much better at just saying "Whatever" to things I cannot control and move on.
you're right. once you realized the amount of energy we waste towards holding grudges, being pissed, etc we see how silly it all is. spend that time w/people that love you. walk the dog. polish your piggies. buy new shoes ;-)
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i think i'm really good at letting stuff go. my mother, on the other hand, isn't. even when it comes to stuff about dan and his family and that whole mess, she still is pissed and holding a grudge. i'm WAY over it. i told her that i couldn't truly be "over it" and move on w/trent if i still held a grudge and let it bother me. she just doesn't get it.
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there's better ways to spend time i think.
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