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[lesserterror]

I think I may have a break-up on my hands. Justin has changed. He doesn't doesn't show up when he says he will, he will make other plans on top of our plans, he doesn't make plans to do things with me (he expects me to make them), he doesn't do a lot of things anymore. I don't know. I hate it when we fight, because he goes into hiding. While he

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[corperate_]

I think you need to have a serious talk with him, and get to the bottom of it. There could be many underlying issues, and you wont ever know unless you ask. If he is reluctant to actually speak to you, try sending him a message, and I know that sounds stupid, I personally hate having to converse with someone via messages, but sometimes it's the only way. Just let him know how you feel, and that you would really like to know what's up. Hopefully it'll work out for you. good luck dude.

[atomic_seed]

I second this, get things out in the open. Face to face is really important, even if its more difficult.

[selfhelpbook]

I'm a little belated on this, but just think about what is it about what he's doing thats bothering you? Why does it bother you?

I think its the purpose of a relationship to see what it brings up for you, and question your own viewpoint about it. Then, once you've done that, you're free to decide what you need to do for you, when you know what your issue with his behaviour is.