Don't kiss and run! And my first kiss was memorable, but only b/c of Victor and the unusual circumstances. But fyi, my first kiss with Brad was much, much better, so I think it depends on the person, whether or not you really know them well and have been wanting to kiss them and are ready, vs. being attracted but nervous, the first time, and having it be a surprise. So basically, if you continue to relax in the relationship, the kisses should get better. Like I said, DON'T KISS AND RUN!!!
Also kissing does not lead to "feelings something" and never will. "Feeling something" leads to "kisses that express that 'feeling something'" or in other words, you gotta have the heart before the physical stuff is actually good. And kissing someone does not actually make you feel anything for them. Loving someone makes you feel something for them, kising just reinforces that and makes you happy because you can show it.
KrisO!! I hope you're having an awesome time. I haven't seen you all summer, and I miss you! Anyway, I guess the best thing to do if he tries it again is to be honest with him - just be like, "you know, I really don't want to do anything more than kissing - if you're not okay with that, maybe we shouldn't hook up". But I wouldn't feel guilty about not loving him - I mean, it's totally natural to be curious about that kind of thing.. Plus, you hardly know him! ...Or do you? I don't know. Anyway, I really didn't feel much on my first kiss, either. I mean, you expect it to make you... like... more attracted to them, or something, and you get really disappointed when you don't feel that chemistry or if sparks don't fly... Yeah, I totally know how you feel, man. Kudos to you on not staying, though! It's good that you didn't get involved in a situation where you would have done/been pressured to do stuff you knew you didn't want to do. It's good that you were strong enough to go when you realized things were getting to be too much.
Ok, this is pathetic, I'm replying to myself, but, I just wanted to say that I did not lead him on at all. for the record, I think I just confused him alot. Probably.
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Anyway, I guess the best thing to do if he tries it again is to be honest with him - just be like, "you know, I really don't want to do anything more than kissing - if you're not okay with that, maybe we shouldn't hook up". But I wouldn't feel guilty about not loving him - I mean, it's totally natural to be curious about that kind of thing.. Plus, you hardly know him! ...Or do you? I don't know.
Anyway, I really didn't feel much on my first kiss, either. I mean, you expect it to make you... like... more attracted to them, or something, and you get really disappointed when you don't feel that chemistry or if sparks don't fly... Yeah, I totally know how you feel, man.
Kudos to you on not staying, though! It's good that you didn't get involved in a situation where you would have done/been pressured to do stuff you knew you didn't want to do. It's good that you were strong enough to go when you realized things were getting to be too much.
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