Way to be creepy, co-worker.

[letmeevolve]

Christmas was uneventful. Spent Christmas Eve and day with the family. I got several gift cards (one of which will be used to get some professional looking clothing for interviews) and a stuffed Dug toy (from Up!) from the Disney store. Hope it went well for all of you

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[pickledprose]

Oh gosh I don't even know. Maybe just tell him really nicely over a text that you just want to be friends. Unless you are scared of him or something and then go to a manager immediately and ask them for help. I don't know. I'm the worst at trying to handle difficult situations.

[letmeevolve]

Thanks for the advice. One of my managers knows about everything and I told her about this too. She said she can talk to him if I ever feels like it gets out of hand. I told her not to do anything yet, as it hasn't progressed into anything.

[we_hum_along]

You know...as a person who has been that creepy guy (many times over lol) maybe he just got caught up in the moment or something. But if you feel uncomfortable with it, just politely tell him you don't feel the same way: he should understand. You could even do it over text. Tell him, "I'm so flattered by what you've said. But I'd hate to lead you on...". Just be nice about it.
And if course, if the problem with him persists because he can't say no for an answer, then contact your manager. But I'm thinking it's a harmless crush. He probably thinks you like it lol.

I'm so happy you have a month off! It's nice, huh? Although, I still feel stressed x.x thinking about the months ahead when I will have to have my ass in class.

[letmeevolve]

One of my managers (also a good friend of mine) knows about the whole thing and said she could talk to him if I wanted her to. It hasn't gotten out of hand, so I told her no. We haven't worked together since so I haven't talked to him. He hasn't text me either, so I may just wait to see what he does.