a lil bit of my yesturday

[liberian_chik]

Ray - ray and I off course have been together for almost 4 yrs now. Thru good and bad I stood beside, to comfort, love, fuck and shed tears. I did hurt ray's heart; buy choosing NEA and allowing her to come in my heart. But in a way karma is a bitch because this happened after 1 crazy bitch an, ex wife and scary trip to the doctor. So because of

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[kissable_lipz]

wow. first off. keep your head up. *hug*
it seems like you just need to print this and give it to ray. because you spell out what you are willing to do and not do. I wish i could be so clear sometimes. but anyways. i hope you find some peace in this situation.

secondly. can i add you?

jai

[jamara125]

NO! We will not move in together

Yeah I say stick with your orginal plan living together can mask alot of issues for the sake of convenience..... it is also harder to separate if necessary when you are financially intertwined dependent on each other....

I hope that doesn't happen just speaking from what I know..... Stick to the orginal plan is all I can say

Good luck with 'er thing

I am sending you an E hug Sis

Setting the record straight.

[angry_blk_man]

It seems that you are forgetting that when your friends abondoned you I was always there for you. 2. No other bitch ever came before you. 3. You had your indiscretions too. 4. You lied about your "Nea" continuosly". 5. You treated me like garbage 6. You told me you did not want to be committed to anyone but yet you were seeking commitment from her. 7. I was ready to start something new and dropped it at your request (something you never did for me) 8. I never made you "buck" 9. You Love "Nea" with all your heart and you still offer your friendship and your pussy to her. ( How many people can you love with all your heart) You miss her touch and her pillow talk and her smile. Makes me feel oh so inadequate. When I do something right, it is treated with such non-chalance but, don't let your bitch do something for you.......it's the greatest thing since sliced bread. I buy you something to wear and everybody including your bitch, sees you in it before I ever get a chance to. I have always stood up for you when your parents were in

Re: Setting the record straight.

[mzmillion]

I know alot of times, some things hurt so bad that you rather just move on with the 'happy' and forget about the steps you had to make to get there but to me it seems that maybe you two need to sit down and really just talk about EVERY issue that may not be clearly lined out between you two. Maybe ya'll need to revisit the "Nea" episode, the forgiving, the not forgiving, the misinterpreted, and all the other things that may seem miniscule to other people but may be a key to something in your relationships. It just seems to me like a bing misunderstanding where ya'll think two totally different things on issues like neglect, ignorance, love, friendship, etc.

Some things that could be simply stated that may have been left out could be something that ruins or really hurts a relationship.....thats just from me who has been there and sees it(true, I may only see her side b/c I'm with her all the time, but that doesn't mean I don't understand what you are saying)....

[no_me_hagas]

Not sure if you got my comment in the community so I posted it here.

Love is blind but if you truly love this woman and you know that you want to be with her then, there are definitely some things you all should talk about. Let her know EXACTLY how you feel. And although she may not feel the same and she gives you some crazy ass response like "we shouldn't be together" then know that you did your part as a person and partner in this relationship. That's all you can do babygirl. You obviously love her because you have taken the time out to be observant and make rational decision about you all moving together. She can do nothing but respect your decisions. Don't give up in her. I see too many relationship die because people just let go. If time is what's needed then do that but don't give up on it.

If this doesn't turn out the way you hope (hopefully it does) then make this, as all experiences, a catalyst for your growth.

Stay Strong
Much Love and Respect

[explicit_wif3y]

stick to your plan cuz it was what was thought out.. *.hugs *