Miami Furmeet was a bust in my eyes.
So today I went to the Miami Fur Meet at Bayside that my friend Phe was hosting. I missed the last meet and kinda owed it to him!
ANYWAY~~~~
So I made the trek to downtown Miami and hit the food court. Was greeted right away and told we were waiting on one more. That's cool! We all chewed the fat and waited for Cherry, the last furry to show up. Vik, the Miami furs mod introduced her to all of us (though I sorta knew Cherry already through a mutual friend).
They all hit up the Art By God, this bitching taxidermy store. I ran to starbucks to get a chai tea latte because fuck you chai tea owns and I had nothing to drink prior to that. I met everyone right outside since they didn't allow drinks inside.
So afterwards we wandered a bit. Went into FYE. Watched the boats. Made some plans. etc. We went to Hard Rock for a spell in hopes of getting lunch but I was really the only one with money. We were gonna go to Chillis but apparently someone who doesn't like Vik was working today.
Eventually we just walk to the McDonalds across the street from the college campus. (Which kinda ticked me off considering their vegetarian menu isn't exactly the greatest. But majority rules, etc).
Meanwhile though, all the way Vik and Cherry were being very....frisky. Like really obnoxious with PDA. I wasn't even aware the hooked up. When I last saw Vik a few weeks ago, he had a boyfriend. And apparently Oh she does have a boyfriend! Marvellous. I don't know, I'm not going to get involved in other peoples dirty laundry,
ANYWAY. After Mickey D's Vik decides to take us somewhere. I guess the beach. The group didn't really question it since he lives downtown.
Except we'd been walking for over an hour. And at that point with the way things were going, I would probably leaving way too late for my liking. I don't like being downtown ALONE or on the transit after 9:00, and it was already 5 or 6. I was tired, annoyed and I don't like Vic. I do not like him at all. He is very self absorbed, a compulsive liar (I'm sorry but his claim to have smoked a blunt with Aerosmith and getting complimented on his singing by Steve Tyler is absolute bullshit). And he kind of made this expression at me before Cherry came that made me feel VERY uncomfortable (twice).
Eventually I got fed up, texted my mom and asked her to pick me up and act like a family emergency happened. They picked me up eventually and I explained the ordeal to my parents. My mom understood completely and thought Vik was fucking insane for that. In fact, she was sure theyd still be walking. I kind of faked it because I didn't want to be that stick in the mud and ruin everyone else's fun time.
As much as I rag on my parents they can be pretty fucking awesome at times. Like when I called mom and explained the situation she and dad rushed over here because she was afraid of me having a panic attack or being too uncomfortable or getting stranded.
I mean I really hate to say it, but like Vik's just that kind of person whose existence bothers me. I try to live and let live. But like, him breathing is like standing against everything I stand for. And he's local so chances are, any Miami meets, he'll be there. I really don't want to write off any future meets because everyone else was really funny and cool to be around. It's just....he really bothers me.
I kinda wanna bring up my grievances on SEFFurs, but I am not sure how to word it because this really just sounds like "I don't like Vik, I'm grudgewanking against him". But I really don't feel OK with being around him unless it's a bigger meet (like the ren faire ones) and I don't have to be within 10 feet of him.