Update

[lifeasjuicy]

1) I haven't been commenting much, but I'm reading your postings. I appreciate you sharing about your joy and pain, your anniversary, your magazine article, your relationship withyourself, your hot sex, your fabulous vacation, your sucky job, your rad coworkers, your family issues, your spinach recipe, your new place, your Vegas trip. Thank you

Comments

[amarama]

3) I recommend CCCS so so so so much. I have paid down my debt by like $4K in one year with them. They are rad.

xoxoxox

[cyrk_vision]

submit to the caffeine. it is powerful.

My stats...

[jenderqueer]

Off the caf. again for a couple of days now... but the calling it is strong, and stronger on the weekends;-) I have only one person in the area who I really, really wish I never had to deal with again. Sadly, family relations make that impossible, so I try to keep it as seldom as possible. I have 2, or maybe 3 others that I wouldn't mind avoiding more often;-> But who don't particularly make me want to flee the room. Good for you with the smart boundary keeping BTW. *hugs*

Re: My stats...

[lifeasjuicy]

Thank you for answering the stats portion of this post...you are the ONLY ONE who did! I asked some friends at a gathering...1/2 the people had zero others they really wanted to avoid, the other 1/2 had 2 or 3 people.

I like having clear boundaries. Once in a while I find mself tripping over my own stated boundaries. This is a struggle in consistency for me...I have an attachment to following standards that I set. A friend said to me last night that this is about wanting others to see me as good...being attached to that identity, that story. My question is, then...can I allow myself to be bad?? This may need to be a new post.

[fatfeistyfemme]

mmmmm - vegas. I've never been, but I wannna goooooooo

[michelchagall]

*kiss*