You make sound like itz a bad thing for someone to be happy. You take it as a crime if someone leads a better life than you, then they must be shunned and never spoken to again. You should be happy if someone you know is happy, you shouldn't bring them down because you are. Its not fair Matt. It really isn't. And it just bothers me, that you won't talk to me because I wanted to talk to my other friends. You don't think you hurt people, but you do. This comment isn't here to upset you in any way, but to show you what the truth is. You hurt people more than you really think. Reading your other comments other girls have posted it looks to me you've done damage to them because they've commited some of their time to other people.
I guess I'm done now that I have gotten my point across...
Also in your entry below you put
And yet another one disappears out of my life
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that only happens because you let it happen, you don't try to work things out. So it only happens because you let want it to happen.
well i guess since you decided to ignore my point i can ignore yours
talking to your friends is one thing, ignoring me completely is another
i was just a fool for figuring it out late that i was the messaging you and not the other way
so yes go ahead and be happy with your life
im not out to ruin it, but to avoid it
I was not ignoring you I swear, if I were ignoring you would I be trying to talk to you now? No. If I were ignoring you I wouldn't attempt to try and talk this out with you.
Compersion: being happy that those you care for are happy.
This is not me saying "if you really cared, you'd be happy" cos that's bullshit. If you could be happy, you would be. It's just a good lesson to learn, if you can.
As for being shy... Well, there's nothing wrong with that. I'm shy, though I'm fairly good at pretending I'm not (and seem like a bitch for my troubles...). Whoever said that guys can't be shy needs to be curb-stomped. My boy is shy and I love him for it, even when it annoys the fuck out of me.
And I'd like to see you. It's always nice to see who you're talking to.
And pretty eyes go a long way, let me tell you... ::swoon::
Geeze theres sure a lot of heavy drama up in here. OK my two cents: SHy guys are absolutely adorable. You don't have to live by anybody else's standards. Live by your own. It's definately ok for a guy to be shy. It's ok for guys to be anything they want to be and same for girls. And while confidence is nice, the fact that you aren't always confident just shows you're human and thats nice too. It's a hell of a lot better than those snotty assholes that are overly confident. Anyway, I empathize with you a hell of a lot but here's one thing I'm glad I've learned over the years. Even if it's really hard, try to be positive. It goes a long way.
Ok, I know that this is going to be really hard to do but ignore them. Personally, I would tell them some thing like "shut the fuck up" or "fuck off" but that's probably not the best approach. Take it from someone who's been where you are, there's no shame in feeling how you feel. It's what you do about it, thats important. Whatever you do, don't give into that little voice in your head that wants to bring you down. Anima Mea is right. She has a high opinion of you.
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I guess I'm done now that I have gotten my point across...
goodbye...
*summer*
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And yet another one disappears out of my life
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that only happens because you let it happen, you don't try to work things out. So it only happens because you let want it to happen.
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talking to your friends is one thing, ignoring me completely is another
i was just a fool for figuring it out late that i was the messaging you and not the other way
so yes go ahead and be happy with your life
im not out to ruin it, but to avoid it
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*summer*
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Compersion: being happy that those you care for are happy.
This is not me saying "if you really cared, you'd be happy" cos that's bullshit. If you could be happy, you would be. It's just a good lesson to learn, if you can.
As for being shy... Well, there's nothing wrong with that. I'm shy, though I'm fairly good at pretending I'm not (and seem like a bitch for my troubles...). Whoever said that guys can't be shy needs to be curb-stomped. My boy is shy and I love him for it, even when it annoys the fuck out of me.
And I'd like to see you. It's always nice to see who you're talking to.
And pretty eyes go a long way, let me tell you... ::swoon::
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yup...
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*summer*
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see if i care
i dont need shallow people in my life
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And it sounds like you had fun...I'm glad :)
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i mean look at the few comments some snobby people have made for this
*points up*
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and thats something i always try to never do
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