BDSM Question

[lifeshighways]

Do any of you practicing the lifestyle ever feel like your role in the lifestyle (be it submissive or Dominant) comes naturally? Or do you feel as if you have to work at it? Do you feel you need more or less in your current situation? Or are you very happy with what you have? What makes you feel like you are submissive? or Dominant? And for the

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[freeinbondage]

i'm sure through conversations this answer is alreay known. Being a submissive come naturally to me with certain people, though i do have an odd view on this. i submit to one. just because i am submissive doesn't mean i'm going to refer to all Dominants or Tops as Sir or Ma'am. With that said, i may respect ones position but taht doesn't actually mean i respect them. ok before i get side tracked, while i feel that it comes natural to me i feel that it is a trait that needs to be harbored and worked on to deepen it. My current situation *ponders* i think i have everything i have ever truly wanted/needed in a Man. As for what makes me feel like i am submissive, well i can't really pin point one exact thing, but for starters the look of satisfaction on Mellow's face or the sound of His voice when telling me i have done something good or right, ahhhhh *SMILES*. i'm sure given more thought i could go deeper with that answer but i will end it on this note, this relationship has taught me a lot about myself, i have grown a lot this past year