Yeah, we're being preeeeeetty careful. A baby now wouldn't quite cause the panic it might've had this been a year ago or something like that, but since Kyle's still finishing school and we're basically living off my income, it wouldn't really be ideal, either :x Fortunately, it's been so far, so good, but we're being very careful.

I think surprise pregnancies and other surprises (losing your job, unexpectedly restarting school, etc.) tend to throw off five year plans considerably and leave you feeling kind of lost as far as what's coming next. BUT that isn't always a bad thing. I didn't really have a "five year plan" until last September and even that's changed.