Comments | lightningflash: Some fools think of happiness, blissfulness, togetherness.

lightningflash

Some fools think of happiness, blissfulness, togetherness.

Mar 29, 2011 10:50

There's a lot of random things going on with me lately. I've posted a bit here and there, but I feel the need to go more in depth. In order to actually get these things posted, and to spare your brains (should you feel inclined to actually read them all), I'll just do one subject at a time. Starting with love ( Read more... )

dating in the new millenium, breaking up is hard to do, love

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lightningflash March 29 2011, 18:52:51 UTC

*hugs back* Thanks - it's been a long time coming and a long road to walk, but until I got to a better place in my head and my heart, I couldn't truly welcome someone in for the long haul!

electriclime March 29 2011, 19:05:57 UTC

I'm so sorry, but so happy at all the ways you guys are handling this. Like mother fucking adults, that.
<3

lightningflash March 29 2011, 20:15:06 UTC

The adulthood thing is HAAAAARD, man! :P

diminished9th March 29 2011, 19:32:08 UTC

:/

well, if you don't want the same things, it really is a better idea now than later. and he sounds awesome and will likely be an awesome person to keep in your life.

always here if you want to talk, and miss you! want to do something soon?

lightningflash March 29 2011, 20:17:52 UTC

He really is lovely, and a damn fine person. Part of my problem is anticipating how hard it will be to let him go from "boyfriend!" to not, BECAUSE he's so awesome. Who would want to let go of that?! Which is kind of stupid, because I *know* it's not a forever thing, yet somehow my heart did not get the memo.

Schedule's been craaah-zy lately, but I will see what I can do!

frogger414 March 29 2011, 21:17:10 UTC

*hugs and loves*

lightningflash March 29 2011, 22:06:36 UTC

Thanks, my dear. And loves to all you guys, too :)
And I really do want to see you guys soon! Sorry I didn't respond last time i texted you - I didn't see your response until like, Sunday (WTF, phone?). I'll text you in a bit about maybe making some upcoming plans?

frogger414 March 29 2011, 22:07:32 UTC

email is better actually but yeah, let's talk!

marinshellstone March 29 2011, 21:31:42 UTC

This is SUCH a healthy decision. I have so much admiration for you right now ( ... )

lightningflash March 29 2011, 22:46:07 UTC

Clay is amazing in regards to what I want, and being supportive. In fact, he has been telling a lot lately when I do wifely things or motherly things or domestic-goddess things, that I'm going to be such a great mother/wife/etc, and that I'm going to make some amazing man incredibly happy. It wonderful to hear, but a bit on the heartbreaking side as well. I hope to find a man just as amazing as him in the future!