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[lil_dq21]

I need to know why. Why does this keep happening? What is wrong with me? I think I'm an attractive person. I'm smarter than most girls, that's for sure. I don't think I have a bad personality; I'm even witty sometimes. I need to know what about me keeps making guys just completely decide I'm not good enough. Why am I not good enough? Why are they

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Its not you, it takes two.

[useronly]

First off, don’t ever become desperate and take the first guy that says I do! You will be sorry. The wrong guy will turn out to be years of misery! The right guy years of joy, with issues still of course but you will be able to work them out together.
Don’t push them into a relationship, you are fortunate that you haven’t married the wrong guy, the right one just hasn’t come along, He will! Be patient and when he does you will both know.
You said, they move on within a weekend, a day, and an hour. That’s great! Better than moving on within a year, two years or five! Don’t give into sex to soon the right guy will move on because he won’t respect you and the wrong guy will move on because he got what he came for.
If you do think you found the right guy, give it at least a year before making a serious commitment. Personally I would give it two. Don’t worry He will show up and it will be worth the wait! Till then enjoy the moment and don’t worry about the future!

[mwuck]

maybe you're TOO good. it sounds stupid, but a lot of guys can't handle an attractive woman who is smarter/has a better job/career than them. Maybe its that your confidence makes them insecure, in which case, they don't deserve you anyway.

Patience!

also, maybe its the type of guy you're into. that might have something to do with it.

[bkguy182]

agreed with everything matt said.

especially the last part. i dont mean to stereotype, i dont mean to judge. but youre not gonna meet guys that are good enough for you/can handle how amazing you are at a bro ho bar.

[lil_dq21]

But I don't feel like I just go to "bro ho bars." I go out with you guys, I go to out with Meagan and them, I've been out with Jenel and Chris' friends, I go to shows and plays with my mom. I feel like I go lots of different places. It all ends in jerks.

P.S. Who was that first poster?

[tinyhannah22]

Oh Luey... (btw I slol'd at I go out with you guys... those guys are gonna move on MUCH faster once they learn you don't have a penis...)

I agree with the Matt and the Babak... and oddly enough parts of what random guy said up there... I think we all need to just live in the moment. We are sooooo young, do we really need boyfriends? Do we really need husbands? babies?! That'll come in time...as cliche and old as that sounds....

You used to tell me that it's worth waiting, being patient... and it's true. I see that now.. didn't see it the first few times you said it.. but I see it more now than ever before. So hold out and don't be discouraged just do your thing and let the idiots do theirs and when the right paths cross.... you'll know it was worth all this churn.

:) luv oooooo