Small note

Apr 13, 2009 11:15

I've defriended several people who haven't updated in a year or more, or you haven't updated so I can see it in a very long time. I feel Livejournal is a place where we share, and when the relationship becomes one-sided, I can't, in good conscience, continue to encourage it. I don't know if any of you were even reading my journal anymore, but I ( Read more... )

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ssfseiyakou April 13 2009, 17:48:24 UTC
IAWTC. I think it is kind of silly to have someone on your friends list / be on someone's friends list when you are filtered out of almost every post. I understand screening your thoughts, particularly if they are private or sensitive or whatnot. But there comes a point when you just have to just move on. The trust is obviously not there. :(

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lilacwire April 13 2009, 17:51:58 UTC
Yep, you hit the nail on the head right there. I understand there are a lot of non-regular posters and readers out there, but I also want to feel that we're here for a reason. To grow something, even if it's tiny and in baby steps. Like, you and I have been in the same room together for under an hour, but I feel that we've got the basis of something fun and interesting, and I really value that!

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ssfseiyakou April 13 2009, 20:32:24 UTC
Ditto - and I really like how you encourage people to think for themselves. (Case in point: learning more about a media-related issue rather than blindlyfollowing the herd - or your friends list.) I think that is a great thing to encourage in people. Besides, it is -always- good to be as informed as you caon on a topic before forming a rock-solid opinion.

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lilacwire April 13 2009, 20:09:26 UTC
oh HAHAHAHA! It's blood! You're not going anywhere, m'dear.

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sephisama April 14 2009, 06:36:09 UTC


I feel the same way, it sucks when you sometimes feel no one is reading what you post. I try to be attentive with my FL, I read often but only post when I have something relevant to contribute.

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lilacwire June 2 2009, 19:56:50 UTC
I ACCEPT. YOU SHALL BE ADDED.

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nudeonthemoon April 18 2010, 18:46:52 UTC
Hey girl, it's Janora, I am pretty sure we need to be friends on LJ!!!

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