1. that thing is freaking long 2. however long it might be, that is so incredibly true it's not funny. i've felt the same way for the first fifteen years of my life (minus the beautiful) and i don't know why but i feel more comfortable in my skin nowadays 3. i'm assuming that steph was directing this to her own life, so i'm going to be one of those reassuring friends and say that "steph, you are beatiful, interesting, funny, smart, sweet, loyal, thruthful, and seriously deserve a GREAT guy. not a good guy, but a great one."
Guys that go for easy girls aren't looking for a relationship, they're looking for a hook up.
You have to understand something about guys. We're not all assholes. We're not all stupid. We're no worse than you. When a girl wears a short skirt, she's asking a guy to want to fuck her and leave it at that. Easy girls don't last in real relationships. And just because a guy goes for an easy girl, it doesn't mean he doesn't want a relationship. It just means that he's going to take what he can get until he can find the right girl. Hookups are nice, easy, and fun. Relationships with a girl that isn't the right one, are none of those. Thus, it's much easier to find random hookups than it is the right girl.
ok understandable. But tell me why the whole nice guys finish last plea makes sense- because to me- nice guys arent finishing last with just girls that are friends they are all looking for a tall skinny beautiful girl- and most girls DON'T look like that. To say they aren't shallow is bullshit...in my opinion.
Then explain to me how you don't find Adam Moody physically attractive and how that isn't shallow.
Society determines a basis for attraction. From there, the individual makes some changes.
How can you expect someone to want to have a serious relationship with someone they don't find attractive? How you can you expect someone to involve themselves in something that involves physical interaction with someone they don't physicaly like? Could you imagine having to wake up in the morning, next to someone like that, every day for the rest of your life? It's not shallow to have physical standards ontop of your mental standards. And its exactly the point that most girls don't match your standards, of course they don't. If most girls matched your standards, then why in fuck do you even need standards?
Adam Moody isnt attractive because he isn't nice. And yea that makes sense sure-
"If most girls matched your standards, then why in fuck do you even need standards?"
So basically you're saying you make it harder on yourself and then you complain about it because your standards are so damn high and you can't get the girl that you want and then use the excuse...nice guys finish last.
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1. that thing is freaking long
2. however long it might be, that is so incredibly true it's not funny. i've felt the same way for the first fifteen years of my life (minus the beautiful) and i don't know why but i feel more comfortable in my skin nowadays
3. i'm assuming that steph was directing this to her own life, so i'm going to be one of those reassuring friends and say that "steph, you are beatiful, interesting, funny, smart, sweet, loyal, thruthful, and seriously deserve a GREAT guy. not a good guy, but a great one."
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You have to understand something about guys. We're not all assholes. We're not all stupid. We're no worse than you. When a girl wears a short skirt, she's asking a guy to want to fuck her and leave it at that. Easy girls don't last in real relationships. And just because a guy goes for an easy girl, it doesn't mean he doesn't want a relationship. It just means that he's going to take what he can get until he can find the right girl. Hookups are nice, easy, and fun. Relationships with a girl that isn't the right one, are none of those. Thus, it's much easier to find random hookups than it is the right girl.
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Society determines a basis for attraction. From there, the individual makes some changes.
How can you expect someone to want to have a serious relationship with someone they don't find attractive? How you can you expect someone to involve themselves in something that involves physical interaction with someone they don't physicaly like? Could you imagine having to wake up in the morning, next to someone like that, every day for the rest of your life? It's not shallow to have physical standards ontop of your mental standards. And its exactly the point that most girls don't match your standards, of course they don't. If most girls matched your standards, then why in fuck do you even need standards?
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"If most girls matched your standards, then why in fuck do you even need standards?"
So basically you're saying you make it harder on yourself and then you complain about it because your standards are so damn high and you can't get the girl that you want and then use the excuse...nice guys finish last.
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