Relationship Needs

[lildawn]

How would you fill in these three blanks...?

1. Things I will always need or require in my relationships are...

2. Things that I will need or require sometimes, things that are acceptable sometimes are...

3. Things that are never acceptable in relationships are... 

Comments

[cleansupwell]

Wow good questions.

Heheh, ok...

I will always need: Security, someone I can depend on to be there. Someone to share things with and to hold at night.

I will require sometimes: A gentle nudge under the table when I am going too far.
things that are acceptable sometimes: A Swift kick in the backside to get me motivated, or to calm me down before I make an ass of myself.

What is never acceptable: Public airing of our dirty laundry before we have even had a chance to discuss it. Vindictiveness or pettiness in response to my actions without giving me a chance to make it better.

These questions are really appropriate right now...