Choosing not to move to NY wouldn't make you a failure. You make choices every day - what's important is that you make the choice, and you move on. You live with the implications of the choices you've made. If you make a bad choice - you fix it.
For what it's worth - I think the important part is to live life with few regrets. Every decision you make closes off some paths, and opens others.
Who would I be if I went to a different school?
Who would I be if I married a different person?
I dunno.
I'll never know.
'cause I've made the choices I have. And everything I've ever done has led me to where I am.
What's important is that you like where that is. And if you find you don't like it - fix it.
So go to NY - it's a hell of a place - but it may not be for you. And if it's not - go somewhere else.
I can honestly say that right now I have no regrets. Okay, I've made some shitty choices, but I've learned from them. But I guess that's what I mean about being a failure - it's more that I know I'd regret it if I didn't at least try. And I don't want to have regrets.
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Choosing not to move to NY wouldn't make you a failure. You make choices every day - what's important is that you make the choice, and you move on. You live with the implications of the choices you've made. If you make a bad choice - you fix it.
For what it's worth - I think the important part is to live life with few regrets. Every decision you make closes off some paths, and opens others.
Who would I be if I went to a different school?
Who would I be if I married a different person?
I dunno.
I'll never know.
'cause I've made the choices I have. And everything I've ever done has led me to where I am.
What's important is that you like where that is. And if you find you don't like it - fix it.
So go to NY - it's a hell of a place - but it may not be for you. And if it's not - go somewhere else.
Find your bliss.
See you in a few days.
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See you tomorrow.
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