A Long December

[lilkubuddha]

Well hello again! I know it has been 3 mo. so i am WAY due for an update! Well where to begin. OK, the boy life... or should i say lack there of? I have started to just not care anymore, which for me is no good. Cause that leads to dumb decisions, so i am in that lovely hole right now. I dont know why it is so hard to find a good guy, but then

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[_fuzzymonkey_]

I love you and I miss you and boys suck.

Suggestion:

[etjustin53]

I suggest read books instead of focusing on guys. Even if guys don't admit it, they want sex. Even if you find a good guy, he'll always battle the temptations in his head. Because I am a guy, I have chosen to hold off on "dating" because emotions are hard to control. When you have an attractive woman in your house and your all alone... it's just asking for trouble. I suggest you focus on talking to older men who you don't want to date and learn about men. I suggest you find men who you trust and can relate to, that way when you find someone who is remotely like the guy you enjoy talking to, then possibly you would have a better understanding of how his mind works and what he needs in life. If you rush things, they go bad and if you deliberately manipulate his mind, eventually the game will be over (he'll get tired and find a new prize). So I suggest you speak to your dad or your grand pa (someone you trust who is older) and ask them how you could prepare yourself best for a "quality" man. I hope that helps. -Justin