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[lilmousgirl]

so when did it stop becoming ok to hang out with your friends who are dating other people? it's not like i want to fuck these people, they're my friends and i like spending time with them, talking with them, going to the movies or having lunch with them. when did it become ok for their boyfriends/girlfriends to control their lives and keep them

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[kardiacc]

I don't understand what makes some people try and run someone else's life.

[xanadu84]

Generally, when a boyfriend/girlfriend does this, they are insecure and don't trust there significant other. Sometimes it is because they have a major problem bouncing around in there head that they can't address, and end up handling it badly, when they need to handle it properly. Instead of talking about and dealing with it, they try to manipulate there way out of the situation, which is wrong, but forgivable. Sometimes they have a reason to be suspicious, but if they keep being suspicious, the love is basically gone from the relationship anyways. Most often, they are just insecure and whiny, and value the benefits of having a significant other, and all the privileges that entails, more then they value the actual person. Its the sign of a shallow, immature individual, or at least, someone being shallow and immature. But that's just my opinion.