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[lilpeat]

Heh. I started to write a journal entry about how hurt I am that I've been shelved again. Funny thing is that as I got going, I realized I'm not hurt.

I don't have a relationship with Steve. We're not even friends. We just fuck.

Why do I say that? How could I not say that? He goes out of his way to make me feel unwanted the next morning. "Ah,

Comments

[caerbannogbunny]

You know, most behaviors and actions are repeated only as long as they produce a result someone wants and then stop once the performer learns and internalizes the fact they no longer work or no longer satisfies enough of a need to be worth it.

In this case, I think both of you have been successful at getting something you want and the cost hasn't been high enough to make you change.

I think it's good you're identifying exactly what it is--the result you want--and are asking the what and why-for's about his result.

There's still figuring out how to deal with your unsatisfied needs on other levels...

Although--between three friends--I've personally come to realize something...

...maybe marriage isn't only about male insecurity.

We miss you

[nuttmegg]

Some of us really worry about you when you don't post. I think maybe you need to give me a call so i can stop worrying about you...lol Hope all is going well for you Lilly~~LYNN