An Update

[lilymoon1]

Okay, gang, here's the updated scoop. I'm truly sorry if I have been hurting anyone with my absence and failing to comment on others' LJ's. It has never been my intention to hurt, ignore or leave anyone adrift

Comments

[purkledragon]

Every day I deal with chronic, severe pain, depression, etc. A lot of people would say...buck up, you can do it

People who say shit like that have no fucking clue what it's like and need to be shot.

That being said. Are you seeing anyone, taking anything for the depression? As someone who is been there/done that/omg why aren't I writing the fucking book? listen to me & don't just try to "deal with it." Even temporary depression can kill. Yes I know you're a nurse, listen anyway. We sometimes need others to tell us this shit. I just saw the line about the antidepressant not working. What are you on, how much & for how long? You may need something different or a higher dose

[nekojita]

*hugs* Sweetie, I can't see how anyone who cares about you wouldn't understand that you need some time to get things together and get back into a position (largely health-wise) where you can be commenting/posting again. You've a lot going on. I'm surprised (and grateful) that you comment as much as you do.

[2metaldog]

With all the crap going on in your life right now, it's a wonder you're not wearing one of those nifty jackets with the extra long arms that ties in the back.

I assumed you just had more than your fair share of shit to deal with and that was why you hadn't been around much. I doubt most people were taking any kind of offence at that either. If they've been reading your LJ, they know that you've been having a really rough ride lately.

As to the situation with the spouse... I've no idea what to tell you. You need to do what's best for you emotionally and mentally. It may not be what others think you should do, but they don't have to live your life either.

[ani_mama]

*hugs* You have a lot of things going on. Worrying about offending internet friends should not even be on your list.

[mirien]

I think you have enough to deal with at the moment without worrying about LJ. IMHO it's more than a little selfish to be getting snitty that you haven't been around/commenting when you're just trying to hold your life together and really, friends who are, you know, actually friends, should understand that.

Take care of yourself and do NOT worry about being here or commenting. It's good to hear from you, even if the news isn't great and I hope things get better very soon. Bit worried about you considering staying with your husband, but that's nothing to do with me.