Human, All Too Human

[limozeen_rocks]

I might actually be going insane. Losing my mind has been my absolute biggest fear since I started working in mental health. I've seen people who were previously high-functioning, productive members of society reduced to rambling freaks incapable of putting together a coherent thought. I've listened to their delusional rants. The fantasies in

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[horsemanure]

Before I start, I'm just going to say that I scanned it and this is going to be very very fast because I have 2 minutes until I have to leave for class, ha ha.

Generally speaking, women don't want a "dominant" man. Many want what you want - a completely cooperative relationship where neither is dominant nor submissive. That being said, what you might interpret as being dominant isn't that but is simply confidence. Confidence turns a woman on. Based on my own experience and the few women I've talked to about this, many will not date a guy if he's insecure or doesn't have a decent amount of confidence (not to cross the line into douchebaggery and cockiness, of course). It's not a matter of being not sympathetic, but it's a matter of preserving our own sanity and energy. Constantly reassuring or solving problems and things like that are extremely draining, especially the reassuring part. I know this from experience.