WHY?
This turned into a long rant... lj-cut time...
Okay, so I have a friend who just graduated high school, so he was a senior this year. Well, last summer he went to math camp(he's a smart guy), met a (smart) girl, "fell in love." She lives in Maryland, he in Louisiana. She is 15, he is 18, but she is going to be a Junior when he a Senior. Well anyway, he comes back home and tells me about it all. He knows that I like to hear when he gets social and gets crushes. It's nice to know. Well, at Winter Formal, my boyfriend got sick, so I went alone. His girlfriend was in Maryland, so he didn't have a date either. Well, for the last song, slow, he asked me to dance. I was like, "Okay, I mean, I have a boyfriend, he has a girlfriend. It's not like it means anything. I slow dance with my guy friends all the time," and I blew it off. Well, I think that's when she started to feel threatened by me. I mean, the girl is in Maryland and hasn't seen him in a long time. Well, he had a trip to go see the girl while visiting a college and it was sweet. He came back and told me about it cause he knows I like to hear about those things with him. Then Prom came along. Well, about a week before Prom, my boyfriend broke up with me (long story, and if you really want to know about it i'll make a different post). Well, I was in need of a date, just because I wanted a picture to remember Prom by. So I asked this guy because I knew he didn't have anyone to go with because of his girlfriend. Well he asked her if he could and she didn't really want him to, but I said all it would be is a picture. She agreed to it, eventually. He couldn't dance with me, though. I didn't really care. Well it turned out Prom didn't have a picture dude there, but we took pictures at this girl's house. It was a group, and one pose was the girls sitting on the guys on the couch. I didn't think twice about it. Well, he sent her a picture, and she got all jealous. I was sitting on his lap. Don't think twice about the fact that the other three "couples" were doing it too, and none of them were dating each other. I guess you could say there is a difference because they weren't dating anyone and he was dating this girl, in Maryland. Well, anyway. This summer, this guy told me that the girl didn't want him seeing any girl in a swimsuit. He tells me that she thinks it's evil. (She apparently thinks a lot of things are evil) Well, I was like... it's summer, in LA. There will be swimming sometime this summer. I guess he'd just have to be secluded all summer, which is basically what he has done. Well, anyway. We have this friend in Idaho who we haven't seen for two years and I wanted to take a trip with this guy to go see this other guy. I told him to find out if he could go ASAP because I wanted to get the plane tickets. Well, right after that, I happened to look at his girlfriend's AIM profile. On the bottom is I hate (Insert my name here) with a :) after it. I don't know this girl, so I don't know if she is just joking or if she is being serious. Well, I ask my friend, "Why does your girlfriend hate me?" he says something like "She thinks you are trying to steal me away." I was like... "WHAT?!?!" I don't like him like that, and he knows that. He says she doesn't trust me. I'm like, "WTF?" Well like 5 minutes after that conversation he says, "I can't go with you to Idaho." I am like, "Why?" he says "Personal reasons." I'm like, "ok, I get it. have a nice life." and then he says, "She didn't say we couldn't keep in touch." So that means she said he couldn't go. It's not because he couldn't take off of work, not because his parents didn't want to pay for it. His girlfriend, IN MARYLAND, says he can't go. Well, by this time I'm pissed, but I can't do anything about it. He has to ask his girlfriend for permission to go see his friend in Idaho? The one he hasn't seen in over two years? Just because he would be travelling with me, he has to ask her. She says no, so he is willing to go God knows how long without seeing this friend just because she doesn't want him travelling with me. UGH! I'm a bit pissed now, but I can't do anything. If I tell this guy that the girl is being too controlling, he would say, "no, she's not. I love her." the end. UGH!! Now he's 19 and she's 16. He's going off to college in California, while I head off to Tennessee. While this girl likes long distance relationships, I personally don't think they would work out for me. Especially not with a guy going off to a different college. This girl is worried about me now, but what will happen when he gets to college? There are a lot more girls there to worry about. I am hardly a threat. Whatever.
Okay, so I have a friend who just graduated high school, so he was a senior this year. Well, last summer he went to math camp(he's a smart guy), met a (smart) girl, "fell in love." She lives in Maryland, he in Louisiana. She is 15, he is 18, but she is going to be a Junior when he a Senior. Well anyway, he comes back home and tells me about it all. He knows that I like to hear when he gets social and gets crushes. It's nice to know. Well, at Winter Formal, my boyfriend got sick, so I went alone. His girlfriend was in Maryland, so he didn't have a date either. Well, for the last song, slow, he asked me to dance. I was like, "Okay, I mean, I have a boyfriend, he has a girlfriend. It's not like it means anything. I slow dance with my guy friends all the time," and I blew it off. Well, I think that's when she started to feel threatened by me. I mean, the girl is in Maryland and hasn't seen him in a long time. Well, he had a trip to go see the girl while visiting a college and it was sweet. He came back and told me about it cause he knows I like to hear about those things with him. Then Prom came along. Well, about a week before Prom, my boyfriend broke up with me (long story, and if you really want to know about it i'll make a different post). Well, I was in need of a date, just because I wanted a picture to remember Prom by. So I asked this guy because I knew he didn't have anyone to go with because of his girlfriend. Well he asked her if he could and she didn't really want him to, but I said all it would be is a picture. She agreed to it, eventually. He couldn't dance with me, though. I didn't really care. Well it turned out Prom didn't have a picture dude there, but we took pictures at this girl's house. It was a group, and one pose was the girls sitting on the guys on the couch. I didn't think twice about it. Well, he sent her a picture, and she got all jealous. I was sitting on his lap. Don't think twice about the fact that the other three "couples" were doing it too, and none of them were dating each other. I guess you could say there is a difference because they weren't dating anyone and he was dating this girl, in Maryland. Well, anyway. This summer, this guy told me that the girl didn't want him seeing any girl in a swimsuit. He tells me that she thinks it's evil. (She apparently thinks a lot of things are evil) Well, I was like... it's summer, in LA. There will be swimming sometime this summer. I guess he'd just have to be secluded all summer, which is basically what he has done. Well, anyway. We have this friend in Idaho who we haven't seen for two years and I wanted to take a trip with this guy to go see this other guy. I told him to find out if he could go ASAP because I wanted to get the plane tickets. Well, right after that, I happened to look at his girlfriend's AIM profile. On the bottom is I hate (Insert my name here) with a :) after it. I don't know this girl, so I don't know if she is just joking or if she is being serious. Well, I ask my friend, "Why does your girlfriend hate me?" he says something like "She thinks you are trying to steal me away." I was like... "WHAT?!?!" I don't like him like that, and he knows that. He says she doesn't trust me. I'm like, "WTF?" Well like 5 minutes after that conversation he says, "I can't go with you to Idaho." I am like, "Why?" he says "Personal reasons." I'm like, "ok, I get it. have a nice life." and then he says, "She didn't say we couldn't keep in touch." So that means she said he couldn't go. It's not because he couldn't take off of work, not because his parents didn't want to pay for it. His girlfriend, IN MARYLAND, says he can't go. Well, by this time I'm pissed, but I can't do anything about it. He has to ask his girlfriend for permission to go see his friend in Idaho? The one he hasn't seen in over two years? Just because he would be travelling with me, he has to ask her. She says no, so he is willing to go God knows how long without seeing this friend just because she doesn't want him travelling with me. UGH! I'm a bit pissed now, but I can't do anything. If I tell this guy that the girl is being too controlling, he would say, "no, she's not. I love her." the end. UGH!! Now he's 19 and she's 16. He's going off to college in California, while I head off to Tennessee. While this girl likes long distance relationships, I personally don't think they would work out for me. Especially not with a guy going off to a different college. This girl is worried about me now, but what will happen when he gets to college? There are a lot more girls there to worry about. I am hardly a threat. Whatever.