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[linkdx]

So, I guess I have a bit of a problem. Amanda and I were just talking, we don't know each other very well, especially for how long we've known each other. I came into the relationship with a thougth of letting what happens happen, which means I didn't make a big effort to get to know her as much as she thinks I should have. It feels like she

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[anonymous]

so are you still a couple or what? If you are, you NEED to start sharing things with her ASAP. She is a quiet shy person but she is reasonable and an amazing person once you get to know her. If you want this, start working at it. You have alot of time to make up for. The question is, is she willing to work at it now and can she trust you?

[linkdx]

questions I was asking myself.

[anonymous]

in reading this again, it seems like you really didn't want to get to know Amanda. That's a real shame. If you were just yourself around her, you probably wouldn't be in this situation...good luck!

[linkdx]

Its not that I didn't want to get to know her, maybe I was just a litte afraid to really be myself. Last time I did that with someone I felt horribly used at the end of it all.

[anonymous]

she really liked the person she met in Germany, then you two started dating and you seemed to change, she was confused...is that fair to either one of you?

[linkdx]

...no, it is not.