to that last question asked:

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I know that she is not that other person. I didn't realize that I was still affected by that other person, I guess I was wrong about that

Comments

[anonymous]

maybe you're not over the other person; it's affecting how you are with Amanda. You need to decide what you want and how much you're willing to let Amanda know about you (if you aren't comfortable letting her knowing you and want to hide not only from her but yourself, you're not ready to be with her or anyone).

[anonymous]

Judging from your last sentence, I think you want this relationship to grow & work with her. GO FOR IT!!