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[lisadevil]

I'm sick. Very very sick. What started out at some deranged form of food poisoning has turned into the worst cold/upper respiratory infection that I've had since last Christmas when I spent a week in bed crying over Caleb leaving

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[emffasung]

I think... we all feel like that.. whether we have a significant other or not... it's def. just a part of the freshmen adaptation process... so if I were you, I'd just chill out for a while before thinking about it...

Feel better! I'm muchos sick too and can't talk! Hooray for dorm disease!

[vigilante]

Are you blind?

If he loved you, he wouldn't make you leave GW. That's manipulative, that's wrong. I'm honestly shocked at you here, Lisa, I'm honestly shocked at you. He only wants to make you happy? HOW CAN YOU SAY THAT WHEN YOU'RE AS SMART AS YOU ARE?

If he loved you, he would wait a couple more years while you went through college to make you happy. If he loved you, he would visit on the weekends and shower you with affection. If he loved you, he would not be suggesting you leave GW.

And yet, here you are, already accepting his word as godsend and implying that you were never happy there anyway. That only Caleb can make you happy. Right. Whatever.

Don't do this, you'll regret it in five years. And I know you think I'm being cliché with my response, but you're being fucking cliché by quitting college a month in.

[lisadevil]

I'm not saying I'm quitting college, I'm just saying that whether or not I belong here is something I think about a lot and it's something that a lot of people have been bringing up, my parents included.

The one time that Caleb and I really talked about me transferring, I cried and he realized that this was the place I needed to be in order to be happy (academically). He's not being manipulative. He told me to stay, and I am for right now.

But if he gets PCS'd, to Texas, to California, to England, to wherever, you can be your ass I'd follow him.

[vigilante]

Only after you cried he realized that you wanted to stay? Shouldn't your words have been enough?

[lisadevil]

I actually didn't say anything, I just straight up cried.

[____heaven_sent]

Oh, on. I hope that you do feel better. Everyerone and their mother has been getting sick.

There are days when I feel like quiting, finished this semester and just transferring, but I remember all of the reasons why I came here and just all of the good times that I've had since I've gotten here and my opinion changes, if ever just so slightly, making me wonder if I could survive it here.

The bad always stands out more then the good. You know that I'm right.

[dayfish]

"But if he gets PCS'd, to Texas, to California, to England, to wherever, you can be your ass I'd follow him."

Wow.

Okay last year I felt like I needed to transfer out of IUP because of lots of shitty reasons, when really all I needed to do was stick it out for a little while and hang in there. Hang in there, you're 18 years old and that's far too young to be so depressed and impulsive. So your entire life you're just going to be so so happy, just bouncing around from state to state, wherever he gets shipped off because you're in love? I don't care if you're married now...you've completely forgotten ALL about yourself and what YOU want ever since you met the guy

[vigilante]

I think your icon only exemplifies the rage you've just channeled, Dana the Dayfish.

[lisadevil]

1. Wow. Harsh. Being told I'm dumb. Ouch. (No, seriously, it really does hurt.)
2. I never cared what anyone in Bristol thought about me.

[x_fxck__]

yea. bristol is buzzing with the news about your marriage. not hearing some good things, but im sticking up for you.

[lisadevil]

Thanks babe.
I can think of a small handful of people who have reason to be pretty pissed off right now, but everyone else....I just don't know.