infedelity

[lisag18]

What constitutes cheating today??? Is infidelity only physical??? Can an emotional attachment be infidelity???

Please chime in..... I need to reflect.

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Infidelity

[anonymous]

Infidelity doesn't require the physical connection. Infidelity begins the moment you decide to develop a relationship outside the marriage and make a decision to leave your spouse S/O out of the loop. Secrecy is the defining act that creates emotional infidelity. Taking anything that belongs to your spouse and giving it to another is infidelity. Your emotional needs are no different that your sexual needs...they belong in the marriage.

Re: Infidelity

[lisag18]

Thank you. I have been at a loss for words for quite some time now. I was unable to sum it up. I couldn't 'have put my own feelings into words any better than you did. There are some things that are just sacred and belong to only two..... they must stay there, it is not ok to share. Thank you for helping.

I am still interested in others thoughts on the matter, but this is how I had been feeling.....