to clarify
I'm extremely busy.
My offline life absolutely has priority to my online life.
That is the reason why often it will probably take me ages to reply to messages.
I don't do that because I willfully ignore you, it's because I just... forget. Don't know what to say. Don't want to leave a half-arsed reply.
I can't spend hours writing up things when I should spend those hours sorting out my life and dealing with things and actually LIVING.
But I understand that that often hurts people, and I'm sorry for that. I'll try to be better with replying to messages, to at least acknowledge that I've received and read them. I don't want to hurt people, be it online or offline. I don't want to be the cause for anyone's grief. And if I have been, I want to try and fix it.
If there's anything that I did, or didn't do, that offended/hurt you.... if you want to, you can leave me a message about it. I'll do my best to reply and explain.