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little_fool

i love you

Jul 11, 2008 18:58

I was told that my (paternal) Grandmother Alejandrina passed away at 3a.m. this morning. She had woken up to go to the restroom when she suddenly had a heart attack and fell to her death on the restroom floor ( Read more... )

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styromgalleries July 12 2008, 02:47:14 UTC

I'm sorry to hear this, Kat.

A couple years ago when my grandpa died, I hardly cried at all. He was my only grandfather (the other one died when my mom was still a kid). We heard first that he had collapsed, then we got the call a little later that he'd died. I cried when I found out he'd collapsed, but not very much when we learned he was gone. It's just the way I deal with things.

Try not to be too upset that you can't cry. It will come or it won't. It's just how you deal with it. It's hard, believe me I know.

I love you!! *hugs*

little_fool July 12 2008, 04:17:47 UTC

My mother asked me a bit earlier if I even cared that she has gone. And I said "Yes! I do...I don't know what's wrong with me" but she seemed upset and left me.

I feel like I hardly knew her enough to cry over her.

♥; thankyou dearie

steotrron July 12 2008, 04:09:20 UTC

I'm so sorry, my friend.

I love you, and I hope you feel better. If you ever need to talk/write, you know that I'm always online.

little_fool July 12 2008, 04:18:27 UTC

thanks, honey<3333

zombiesauros July 12 2008, 15:23:48 UTC

You're just probably still in the denial stage of grieving. It's not weird or mean to not instantly cry when something like that happens. You still loved her and miss her. Your way of taking it is just this way. I'm a lot like that too though usually something random, like a photo or something that reminds me of someone, will trigger crying.

It's terrible but at least you got to spend some time with her and you loved her very much. She died loved and that's the best way to go. It's just terrible that it was so sudden.

It's things like this that remind us to let the ones we love know we love them because at any minute they could be taken away.

little_fool July 12 2008, 22:48:14 UTC

I'm glad I'm not alone in this, still I can't help shake this feeling of guilt that I don't feel "broken-hearted" about it :/

Yes, my grandmama did know how much love we all had for her ♥ and I'm glad she did.

Thank you for your words, my dear<3333333

renuki July 13 2008, 00:08:48 UTC

D:

Sorry to hear this. D: