Yeah, you could say that. My whole family pressures me and doesn't care how I feel about this. Once I said only "I don't want that" and the answer is "Don't be so selfish!"
I always have to do what others say, in my job I have to accommodate to their rude behavior. Yes, I curse and the like but I would never say disgusting things like they do. So once I said, "hey I'm also here, could you keep it down a bit?" There was the same answer that I just have to go with the flow. Oh thanks I feel better now. >_> (note the sarcasm here)
So I ask myself if I really want to be like that my whole life long. If I have to be their doll. If this is what human life is supposed to be like.
So I practically live no for myself, I live to please others, almost like a whore without payment. >_>
Well, that decision is up to you. Breaking ties with family can be difficult. And feeling unsure. Currently, I'm trying to go to college in Canada or US, which is quite far away from my family and my home. I know my parents are against it and I know I'm scared (slightly), but I'd still rather do it than regret it later. I really would hate to miss a great opportunity. Take the chance. Try to push your regrets away. It's not the end. If you feel what you have chosen for yourself isn't adequate then turn back.
I guess I'm pretty lucky here, my family hardly ever puts any pressure on me at all and I have a pretty easygoing 'life is for having fun' outlook anyways. But still, you're your own person! If you don't want to do everything they're asking/telling you to and they've been pushing and pushing at you you've got a damn right to snap back at them. And so what if you're being selfish, so are they even if they won't admit it, and you've got every right to do what you want from time to time.
And hey, even if tday is teh day that hell boiled over and the fountain of doom sprung up in your backyard, there's always tomorrow. Only thing I can see as being the reason to live is to enjoy it, so enjoy it as much as possible because you only get to go around once.
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I always have to do what others say, in my job I have to accommodate to their rude behavior. Yes, I curse and the like but I would never say disgusting things like they do. So once I said, "hey I'm also here, could you keep it down a bit?" There was the same answer that I just have to go with the flow. Oh thanks I feel better now. >_> (note the sarcasm here)
So I ask myself if I really want to be like that my whole life long. If I have to be their doll. If this is what human life is supposed to be like.
So I practically live no for myself, I live to please others, almost like a whore without payment. >_>
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Well, that decision is up to you. Breaking ties with family can be difficult. And feeling unsure. Currently, I'm trying to go to college in Canada or US, which is quite far away from my family and my home. I know my parents are against it and I know I'm scared (slightly), but I'd still rather do it than regret it later. I really would hate to miss a great opportunity. Take the chance. Try to push your regrets away. It's not the end. If you feel what you have chosen for yourself isn't adequate then turn back.
It's really up to you.
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I guess I'm pretty lucky here, my family hardly ever puts any pressure on me at all and I have a pretty easygoing 'life is for having fun' outlook anyways. But still, you're your own person! If you don't want to do everything they're asking/telling you to and they've been pushing and pushing at you you've got a damn right to snap back at them. And so what if you're being selfish, so are they even if they won't admit it, and you've got every right to do what you want from time to time.
And hey, even if tday is teh day that hell boiled over and the fountain of doom sprung up in your backyard, there's always tomorrow. Only thing I can see as being the reason to live is to enjoy it, so enjoy it as much as possible because you only get to go around once.
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