Totally out of the blue!

[lizziinvisigoth]

So I have this good friend whom I met at one site or another, I found out recently, after spending several months getting close and very comfortable with her that she isn't genetically a female. now I have no problems with this, I still see her as a beautiful and caring woman, and while this doesn't freak me out in the least, I find myself

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[online_feline]

Well, she apparently thinks you already knew, but she didn't give you details obviously.

Honestly? I would just ask in a polite, curious way. Just say, "So, I'd really like to hear about your journey." I think it would make her feel more comfortable around you, plus, it shows you care about her and are interested in her life.

:)

I love you baby.

[moondognight]

I second this. I couldn't have said it better.