Comments | llyrica: Update on xavvie

llyrica

Update on xavvie

Oct 04, 2007 11:03

PLEASE NOTE: I am leaving this public, as I am leaving the prior entry public, although it contains real life information, because I am not sure of the best way to reach everyone in xavvie's vast on-line community ( Read more... )

mortality, death

Comments 7

Obituary crayonbeam October 4 2007, 17:07:10 UTC

Xavvie ( ... )

Re: Obituary llyrica October 4 2007, 17:28:33 UTC

Can you send me a link? I want to add that to the Legacy.com site but it can't find it, and the Keene Sentinal on line wants me to subscribe...

Re: Obituary crayonbeam October 4 2007, 19:01:32 UTC

You can use my login, and share it.

Username/SubscriberID: margaret
Password/Subscriber Number: 78323

acw October 4 2007, 20:30:55 UTC

I'm still assimilating this news. But here is one thing that occurred to me while I was thinking about Xav the other night. (We're on a no-real-names basis in this public post, right?)

Recently (at least in the past year or so) her life was taken up by her desire to help women in crisis. She's been volunteering (unpaid position, if I understand this properly) at the above-mentioned Women's Crisis Center. Over the last eight months or so she was looking into pursuing an advanced degree in counselling. She was accepted by two area universities, and had considerable trouble deciding between the two programs, which had different strengths and weaknesses. It's characteristic of her that she was leaning toward the program that had more actual practice earlier, because she didn't want to just learn about helping women; she wanted to help women. Then, her center changed her thinking by hinting that they might have a paying position opening up shortly, and that she'd be considered seriously for it. Again characteristically, she chose ( ... )

woofiegrrl October 5 2007, 20:36:48 UTC

I fucking hate this. I want her to come back online and say "haha gotcha!" I really do. You especially have my love right now, Llyr, I know how close you were. This makes me so sad.

Shocked ladyandromeda October 6 2007, 00:43:49 UTC

I never met JEn in person but have always wanted to. I always knew she was there reading my stuff and vise versa. I cant get to Florida but I will send donations. I also would like to send her family a card. I am so crushed. My deepest deepest condolescences. I dont know what to say. So how can I send something to her family? Also do you know if there will be anything going on in New York?

Moriah Gornstein
moriah.spector@gmail.com

kathryn0442 October 10 2007, 03:40:33 UTC

thanks for letting me know. and my condolences on losing such a close friend. That is just horrible :(