I would give her a guilt trip for making me feel like I can't share these things with her, then lay the news on her. She'll be so shocked by all of my other revelations that the pregnancy thing won't seem so bad.
that's what i did with my grandparents. i think they're still reeling.
as long as you know #1 to be true, #2 should be sufficient. eh?
I'm glad I didn't, because that would have stifled the joy she clearly felt at the news. Oh well. One of the principles I kind of believe in and don't always practice is: give everyone a fresh chance by perpetually expecting the best from them. never assume someone has bad intentions, unless doing so would put you in immediate danger. i hadn't been applying that rule of my own to the stuff with mom, and i should have, and this is just a great big reminder of that.
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that's what i did with my grandparents. i think they're still reeling.
as long as you know #1 to be true, #2 should be sufficient. eh?
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