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lolawastamed

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Mar 10, 2010 01:21

just a few more days and i see michael again.

...but he still wants to move his suits and stuff out of my closet and into storage till he gets back...because of the john debacle. it hurts my feelings a little...a lot.

watching bones...david boreanaz is simply delectable. that is all.

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pnkngrnd3 March 10 2010, 14:03:43 UTC

Ouch. I don't remember you writing about that. What would it matter where his suits were? Does he think that someone else is going to wear them? That makes no sense.

But, yeah, I can totally see how your feelings are hurt by that.

Man, that sucks. Instead of your days back together being filled with lots of lovin', they'll be somewhat awkward and "where do we go from here".

This comment took forever to type because LJ kept refreshing the ads and that was slowing down Firefox like woah.

I really should get into Bones. The few episodes I've seen look really cute.

hester32281 March 10 2010, 15:48:11 UTC

he wants to move his stuff or he wants to move his stuff BECAUSE of john? that's weird. and it would hurt my feelings too. it's kind of like he's telling you that he's not over it and he doesn't trust you with his stuff.

nonpostmodern March 10 2010, 17:22:53 UTC

It seems to me that it's more like he wants his stuff out so incase she does this again, he can leave without all the pomp and circumstance of having to go over to her place and get his stuff and move it while she's there. These next 6 months, the second half of his deployment, are her test in his eyes. If something like the John incident happens again, he's gone.

I think he's making a mountain out of molehill, myself.

lolawastamed March 10 2010, 22:37:25 UTC

this exactly.
i threw a fit.

pnkngrnd3 March 11 2010, 17:48:10 UTC

You have every right to throw a fit. That's like saying, "I trust you, but I don't trust you."

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ualaw2004 March 11 2010, 19:05:34 UTC

do you ever go back and read your old lj entries thinking, "who was that girl?" i just am not familiar with the old lola that was in love with devin.....thus, i still have difficulty in meshing the lovey-dovey, emotional blatherings of this lola with the lola of old

lolawastamed March 11 2010, 20:34:49 UTC

lol "blatherings" has a very negative connotation!!

but whereas i would do anything for michael, i don't think (really) i would have done anything for dave (formerly known as devin). there would probably have been a line. and obviously there was. :P

idk.
mike is a whole 'nother ball game for me.

nonpostmodern March 11 2010, 22:51:31 UTC

You were prepared to move across the country for him.

I think you're like a brick wall that deflects back what's given to you. You give back what you get. Dave was wishy washy and when you look back it's obvious his heart wasn't in it and it was never his intention to have you move in with him and build a life with you in the first place. So, even though you had strong feelings for him, you sensed that something wasn't right on his end and didn't throw yourself into it like you did with Mike.

Same with Will. Will was a wussy mama's boy with no backbone and you were able to sense that so you ended up craving more, even though you two talked about getting married, etc.

Mike is the first guy who has come along who has reciprocated everything you feel for him (unlike Dave) and has been a man with a sense of direction and willing to uphold his end of the bargain and offers stability (unlike Will).