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Jan 08, 2004 17:15

Ok people...I need some advice, but since I'm a respectable human-being, I wont invade anyone's privacy by naming a bunch of names. Instead, I've thought up a little scenario that is much akin to my predicament....so read it and tell me what you would do ( Read more... )

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Be patient. anna44 January 8 2004, 23:38:19 UTC
I can relate to this person. Not you, the one you like. Your right, they are nervous because they know that you like them and they like you. I would say either act like you don't like them anymore or try to make them as comfortable as possible. In my situation the person made it clear that they liked me and that they were waiting for me to be comfortable. That made it a lot better. This person was very respectable and patient. I suggest you follow his example. Cause Me and the person your talking about are very similar when it comes to boys. Well as far as being cautious. Give her time and just make her feel comfortable. So I take back my advice about acting like you don't like her because she may lose intrest. She is already busy and if you act that way she'll just forget it. be kind too, don't be too upfront. Just do subtle little things to make it clear that you have a thing for her. She'll come around.

I didn't use names but i'm sure you got all that. :)

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anonymous January 10 2004, 02:10:10 UTC
If u know she likes u and u really care for her then keep tryin. Even tho she may be shy around u, just start hanging w. her more and sooner or later she will come around :))

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anonymous January 10 2004, 18:52:30 UTC
Dylan ..dylan ..dylan..wats up man..i read ur dilemma..hmm why dont u confront her about it? ask her why shes being strange...instead of like guessing what shes feeling and why shes not talking anymore..just ask her..u wont know anything unless u ask her and get her to say what she really feels..but thats all i got..u must be wondering who this is..think of ...gandhiii.and of course the coolest brown kid(only brown kid) around gville..haha.later man - Karan

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How bout this... anonymous January 12 2004, 00:39:55 UTC
Try just not talking to them almost like ur ignoring them... and just wait a while if they dont start to talk to u again then just straight up ask them wat the deal is!!! Tell them u dont like them just ignoring u all the time and just sit down with her/him and try to talk it over...

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anonymous January 13 2004, 01:05:49 UTC
ok, i kno how u feel,it used to happen to me all the time, and i used to act like that towards my crushes. but unlike me, u still want to be friends and more w/ this person so just ask them, n a very calm, nice, polite way, y their ingnoring u. try 2 do this n private (i.e. phone, im, whatever). then base ur decision on the response, if any, from this person.

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