Comments | lone_wanderer23: Getting ready to loose dead weight.

lone_wanderer23

Getting ready to loose dead weight.

Feb 11, 2008 23:01

There are some people in my phone who aren't returning my calls. I'm sure there are plenty of reasons, and I'm sure there's a positive, logical one out there. It's just not within my realm of experience ( Read more... )

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mathmanatm February 12 2008, 05:54:22 UTC

1. Quantity != quality
2. Someone could count the days that they've been with someone on V-Day on one hand, but could still have several significant relationships, if timed properly. (Time them right and you don't have to shell out the dough! Almost as good as starting just after/ending just before a b-day.) Just as a side note, I don't count the V-days where I wasn't dating someone. I count the ones where I was.
3. Passive aggressive? Emo? Not sure which this falls into.
4. I'm flying solo for V-Day as well. Doing anything this weekend?

lone_wanderer23 February 12 2008, 07:43:20 UTC

If I had to classify it, I'd say emo, as I'm feeling pretty hurt that the ones I've been trying to get a hold of don't even bother to call me back. So, the onus is on them. It might even go farther, depending on how far I want to "purge" it.

My (preliminary) weekend looks like this:
Friday: Observation, Duty, then spending the evening at the 'rents.
Saturday: Moving stuff, then date (?).
Sunday: Gaming in the E.L.

Moral: Keeping myself busy enough not to depress myself.

mathmanatm February 12 2008, 11:58:29 UTC

I think I know what you mean about people not calling you back. I might have a similar problem where I'm initiating contact with people and making attempts to hang out, but never the other way around. You could delete them, but my preference is to just lower my expectations. Take care of myself, be fine on my own. It's not easy, but it's possible. The other thing? I don't talk about it in public posts. I can imagine seeing that and feeling self-righteous about not calling back if you're going to be passive-aggressive about it.

I've got nothing planned for the weekend at this point, so let me know if you feel like grabbing lunch or something.

roscop February 12 2008, 12:22:35 UTC

A) You know I'm terrible at returning phone calls. I'm so bad at it, that I don't even know if I should have a phone. I'm terrified of the phone. Email or LJ is so much easier. I don't know why.

B) The flowers you gave me one year lasted forever. They were beautiful. Did I ever thank you for those? Because if I didn't, thank you.

lone_wanderer23 February 12 2008, 13:29:00 UTC

No, you're on my good list! :)

I just haven't called you in a while. How are things?

dailean February 13 2008, 04:12:08 UTC

JR!!!! You rock my socks. Don't worry I'm feeling crappy about V-day too. Last year me and (ex now) didn't even celebrate it, and now my bf is too far away for us to do anything. it sucks. In a sence it's worse then not having anyone at all.