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[longlostjohn]

i met a really sweet, super local gal (literally 2 blocks away) 2.5 weeks ago. we get along splendidly.  its been a pretty quick progression to seeing eachother 2-3 times a week.  things overall seem uncharacteristally smooth.

normally, i have a busted radar for sensing when a girl is into me, but ive been trying to be more aware of body language,

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Hi, John!

[aimodestructo]

Good to hear from you, again. :)

What has your haning out consisted of so far?
Perhaps you could try testing the mood by suggesting something a little more "datey," without calling it a date, and see how she responds?

Re: Hi, John!

[longlostjohn]

ahh, aim!..my saviour =)

well..

we went to princeton to this brewery she frequents. got some food/drinks and walked round town..got some sorbet. i guess that was kinda date-y?..

after that we had just hung at eachothers place. made some din, watched a movie, got to know eachother..that kinda stuff

last night she invited me to the middlesex county fair..her sis and some of her sis' friends were going.

im going to see her again friday, and maybe thinking of telling her id like it to be a date/date..but at the same time
i dont want to scare her off, because besides the fact that she likes to spend time with me, im not picking up any sort of signs.

Re: Hi, John!

[longlostjohn]

i should say 'since then', rather than after that..this was spread over 4-5 times seeing eachother..not like 2 days

Re: Hi, John!

[aimodestructo]

Go for it John, before you get in the friend zone permanently. It seems like you guys are really hitting it off and enjoy spending time together! She's probably just shy. Has she mentioned interest in any other guys since you've started hanging out?

[rob_danger]

in my experience you know when you know, and usually that's early on. the moment she talks about some other guy or even some other chick being sexually or romantically appealing that is a sign that she's trying to tell you she sees you guys as buds.

i say keep on laying on a subtel flirt, if she is receptive great if not, then simmer down and take it slower.

worst that can happen is she is just honest with u and u can tell her cant blame a guy for trying and just be friends thereafter. i wish u so much luck in this endeavor. wanna hang this week?

[longlostjohn]

hmm..she doesn't really speak of guys, and not at all in a romantic capacity. i asked her why she's single and she mentioned her ex being an alcoholic..ha. she doesn't bring up other guys, other an old friend from her hometown she hung out with here or there

update

[longlostjohn]

sooo, things went great on friday. it was a really sweet date. she's been much more responsive to my gestures so i think im on a good path