menopausal miseries or just everyday anxieties?

[loobiloo]

My moods seem to vary so much. My poor boyfriend stands by me as I push him away and draw him in. One moment I'm told that I am post menopausal, then I am told its impossible to say what state of menopause I am in as the test wasnt done properly. So then I had another test which seemed to be complete and which then showed I'm not yet menopausal

Comments

[bestill]

Sorry you are feeling so crappy. Especially since they say you aren't menopausal, It's always easier I think if you can put a label on something so you don't just think you are crazy . . .unless of course that ends up being the label.

I have been having night sweats. I am not menopausal. I fear mine is form something else. But I'm sure it's not.

That is great that your boyfriend is so understanding.

[loobiloo]

thank for that; Ive just been told that Im definately POST menopausal so thats what Im going to believe! My night sweats/hot flushes stopped some while back - hopefully you are too young to be getting menopausal night sweats. They can be stress related cant they?

[bestill]

If you have been following my "saga" in my journal, you will know what I'm afraid they are from--my dealings with my "felonious friend". But I'm sure that isn't the case.

[loobiloo]

Well it would be quite possible and appropriate - that sounds like an awful lot of stress you are going through. Hope its all over with soon x