This first part is more or less adressed to two friends of mine. and I will just use their innitials to make it easier than puting things in hypothetical
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I'm not sure you'll be able to catch Lisa before she leaves...she's pretty busy, and I'm pretty busy, and then she's gone Tuesday. It'd have to happen Monday night, and that's simply not gonna work. Sorry, man. Maybe the time seperate will do good things for the two of you...I think it'll be good to let certain issues pass before shit resumes hitting the fan.
Oh, and can you cancell_of_der, please, so you open up my invite code for someone else? Thanks.
Re: Sure...lord_of_derAugust 11 2003, 02:40:04 UTC
I don't want the shit to resume hitting the fan. And i dont think she does either. By the time there is a chance for shit to hit the fan again, it will cause more chaos than is needed, and it will not work, so frankly i will have to cancal the activity of this "shit hitting the fan" or at least move it till another point in time, if it does not work till after she gets back, and again i think she would agree, because as far as i know she will have a nice amount on her plate, and it would not work for her either. One note, i am a bit sleep deprived, haven't slept well in the last two nights, and that is compared to how i normally sleep, so you guys can probobly guess if i haven't mentioned it to you. none the less i will still be up for an hour or two. yay. but back onto what i was saying. though i am tired i think i have a few points that are at least fairly accurate. . .. . and so on.
I'm sure you don't want shit to hit the fan, but trying to approach your ex-girlfriend to resolve the situation (or whatever you hope to gain out of the meeting) qualifies as a "flinging shit fanwards" activity. That's just how life works; sorry.
Chiasmus has a point, I have been saying for a while that you both need space and this doeas foprce you two to have space. time just isn't opening up right now.
Re: besideslord_of_derAugust 11 2003, 11:23:30 UTC
I know the time isn't open right now, and this definition of space has evolved a bit since you have been using it... but that is not my main point . . I know that space is a good thing, hence why I haven't been to certain events and activities much. I've been trying, and i hope that people at least realize that. . .. . . . . . . ., . . . . . . .. . . . . ., .. . . . . .
Another notelord_of_derAugust 11 2003, 11:43:54 UTC
I want to tell you all this, and I hope you would know this: I know there were points where I messed up between L and I. And I accept that, I actually did apologize for a great deal of it, and i will tell you about tha specific time if you would like to know. I am not the only one who messed up between us though. By mentioning that two of you had talked about helping I am not trying to shift any blame, I don't do that, I am trying to see if you are still able, and willing to help us. I know L and I got ourselves into the situation, and that you don't need to help. And I know space can probobly help the situation, the reason I was asking about this again was because it at least seemed to me as if people wanted it to be dealt with soon. And i know as of now that the there is more than a 99% chance nothing will be able to happen with it before she leaves, and I know that.
Yo you should have told me this was your account. I was thinking l of der was
Bah
silly man..
Honest thought, this will be good for both of you. dont get me wrong, drama will still happen in your work, as will hers, but unless you try REALLY REALLY hard, you will not be the sources of each others drama, so things will be somewhat better when she comes back.
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Oh, and can you cancel l_of_der, please, so you open up my invite code for someone else? Thanks.
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One note, i am a bit sleep deprived, haven't slept well in the last two nights, and that is compared to how i normally sleep, so you guys can probobly guess if i haven't mentioned it to you. none the less i will still be up for an hour or two. yay. but back onto what i was saying. though i am tired i think i have a few points that are at least fairly accurate. . .. . and so on.
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Did you cancel l_of_der yet?
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By mentioning that two of you had talked about helping I am not trying to shift any blame, I don't do that, I am trying to see if you are still able, and willing to help us. I know L and I got ourselves into the situation, and that you don't need to help. And I know space can probobly help the situation, the reason I was asking about this again was because it at least seemed to me as if people wanted it to be dealt with soon. And i know as of now that the there is more than a 99% chance nothing will be able to happen with it before she leaves, and I know that.
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Bah
silly man..
Honest thought, this will be good for both of you. dont get me wrong, drama will still happen in your work, as will hers, but unless you try REALLY REALLY hard, you will not be the sources of each others drama, so things will be somewhat better when she comes back.
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