A Year Ago I Danced

[lordmachiavelli]

When my wife and I first met, she hated birthdays. As a child, she was often under some punishment or another, or her sadistic mother found some way to embed a new horrible memory. Attempts to change things in her adult life always seemed to end up in disappointment and failed expectations in the least

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[lady_sodayah]

Yesterday I booted up Semagic for the first time in awhile, it reminded me of the birthdays the next day just like always, a C's LJ came up as today and coraon and I just kind of looked at each other and he just held me.

C knew you loved her, you could see in her journal that she did. And you changed her life for the better. Just remember the happy times you had with her, and that you have people here to support you.

When I lost my husband the first birthday's were really bad, but I celebrated them and I survived like he would have wanted me to. If you need to talk Coraon and I are here or on Yahoo messenger.

[liors_nava]

I too, had a reminder in my inbox for Conny's birthday. It reminded me how sad I was that we had never met. SOmetimes you take those little things for granted, thinking there will always be tomorrow, or next week to fulfill those things we put off. I don't do that anymore, because of the possibility of missed opportunities.
I said a "happy birthday"... and remembered the funny times we had on yahoo.
We need to keep our memories close...and those that we loved will never be truly "gone".
Sending you big hugs right now...

[smf1]

Remember that happy time, and all the other happy times, and know that you were able to give her great delight over her birthday. Over the years you were able to change her feelings about her birthday to good ones, then to happy ones. You were able to make her life better and happier; hold on to that as I think that is what she would have wanted.

Dance For Connie

[jezabelhussey]

Keep Dancing for Her, Celebrate her life every year because she is still with you in your heart, mind and spirit. You were so lucky to find her because so many people never meet the love of their life. Celebrate and remeber your love and make it a happy day.

Flesh will be born, live and die.

But your spirit and the people it touched will live for ever passed down one person to one person to one person at a time.

Connie touched me and she will always be remembered.

With Love

slave Jezabel

[evilsausage]

Wow. That's nice.