today has been rather uneventful. sure, i can think of a shitload of things i need to be doing right now, but that's just not my style to get them done ahead of time
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It's not an issue of guys or even girls.. it all comes down to people mindlessly searching for that "magical person they will spend forever with".. people get so frustrated that so and so and so and so only goes for so and so when reality people are just looking to "connect" with the "one" and in this journey, there prove to be so many that either arent the one or the the one you may think is the one isnt because in that person's eyes you aren't the one (and in terms of going for unobtainable beauty, it makes sense for those searching for the fairy tale to look for someone to fit that part doesn't it? Be it a dead ringer for Angeline Jolie or Johnny Depp). And the more people beat themselves up about this crap, the more self inflicted stress they have. Just let go, if you end up with someone you do, if you don't you don't. Better to be honest either way, than self diluted and unhappy deep down. Society tells you from day one that the most important part of living "happily ever after" is having that prince or princess. Fuck them
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man does it piss me off to have a geeky guy come into work one day(i'm strangely attracted to geeky guys), and me think 'hmm maybe i can ask this guy to hang out.' then the next day he comes in with this BEAUTIFUL TALL THIN BLONDE chick. (this happened last week btw)
A friend of protoman20xx's writes:travelosopherApril 10 2005, 06:04:54 UTC
jscottinfo had a great point, when he said, "What do you want?" That is really the most important question. Without answering it, you can't be prepared to ask whether or not what guys want is even important to you. Do you want a guy who sees, in you, the pre-established traits that he desires; or do you want a guy with whom you are friends, first, and who then realizes that you are everything he wants. The best relationships start off as friendships. Sure, in order to take it to the next phase, you have to be at least somewhat sexually attracted to the person. Eventually, however, the sex loses the appeal that it once had (and I'm talking years down the line), and you start wondering if you might be able to have with someone else what you have with whomever you're with. That will not happen if your lover is also your best friend!
Having said that, I will give you a few traits that guys who have a healthy mental and emotional disposition are most likely to look for in a girl with whom they wish to have a long-term relationship:
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I beg to differ.
Perhaps you and I could discuss our differences about genders before and then after Sin City?
If anything, I could use a reason to get out of this house, and I've heard nothing but great things about the movie.
I'm a nice guy, and I'd like a chance to show you that we do, in fact, exist. We just don't get out much.
E-mail is Lorac1061@hotmail.com write me, I'm free all the time.
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jscottinfo had a great point, when he said, "What do you want?" That is really the most important question. Without answering it, you can't be prepared to ask whether or not what guys want is even important to you. Do you want a guy who sees, in you, the pre-established traits that he desires; or do you want a guy with whom you are friends, first, and who then realizes that you are everything he wants. The best relationships start off as friendships. Sure, in order to take it to the next phase, you have to be at least somewhat sexually attracted to the person. Eventually, however, the sex loses the appeal that it once had (and I'm talking years down the line), and you start wondering if you might be able to have with someone else what you have with whomever you're with. That will not happen if your lover is also your best friend!
Having said that, I will give you a few traits that guys who have a healthy mental and emotional disposition are most likely to look for in a girl with whom they wish to have a long-term relationship:
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keep in mind that my journal is just composed of rantings of a woman who thinks too much. mmmkay.
and it's 36-24-26. sir mix-a-lot is awesome.
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