Advice from someone who doesn't know what she's talking about:
I say look at past examples and see how much he's hurt and frustrated you. See how this can all quickly revert back to the same cycle you wanted out of.
Speaking from 4.5 years of experience, I could recant tales for hours about how I tried to make it work. How I finally changed in hopes that he would change. People never change. Its perfectly fine to be alone for awhile. You'll learn a lot about yourself. Don't settle, if you're not euphoric in the relationship, move on. It's not going to get better, just giving it time won't work. If he wanted what you wanted, it would be that way, you shouldn't have to bribe and beg and push and wait for it. What happens if you do have a future together? Can you see it in 20 years? Will you still be frustrated and left wanting? I think so. A relationship is 50/50. What you're looking at is like 90/10. Run away and save yourself.
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I say look at past examples and see how much he's hurt and frustrated you. See how this can all quickly revert back to the same cycle you wanted out of.
I say leave him for good.
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What you say?
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People never change.
Its perfectly fine to be alone for awhile. You'll learn a lot about yourself.
Don't settle, if you're not euphoric in the relationship, move on. It's not going to get better, just giving it time won't work. If he wanted what you wanted, it would be that way, you shouldn't have to bribe and beg and push and wait for it.
What happens if you do have a future together? Can you see it in 20 years? Will you still be frustrated and left wanting? I think so.
A relationship is 50/50. What you're looking at is like 90/10.
Run away and save yourself.
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