Comments | lost_and_gone07: I NEED ADVICE

lost_and_gone07

I NEED ADVICE

Nov 01, 2007 16:32

my roommate has decided that she hates me and is doing everything in her power to be rude, disrespectful, and patronizing to me. I feel like I'm probably the most easygoing and clean roommate ever, and I'm only there around 2 or 3 nights in the week. Here are the ways that I have "wronged" her since we moved in ( Read more... )

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jennasaisquois November 2 2007, 01:17:16 UTC

ahhh! what's her name i want to find her on facebook and then look for her around campus.
oh man, kate. i dont know. maybe you could pull a ton of pranks on her until she hates you so much she has to move out. do your suitemates like her? maybe you could all gang up on her? good luck.

lost_and_gone07 November 2 2007, 13:01:39 UTC

haha molly hanes. shes out of her mind.

heldxyou_closer November 2 2007, 05:06:44 UTC

Haha, Jenna's bit about ganging up on her with your suitemates made me laugh... since they all belong to different sororities maybe it would be like a giant cat-fight?

I would try to calmly and rationally talk to her about it. Why was she upset that you let Kelly stay there? Does she think it's solely your responsibility to take out the trash? What makes it okay or a reasonable thing to do in her mind to intentionally wake you up the nights that you actually spend in your room? Talk with her about the fact that you both have to share that living space three nights a week maximum and you should be able to compromise. Another good thing might be to emphasize the "ours" aspect of the room and downplay the "mine" aspects when you talk with her ( ... )

lost_and_gone07 November 2 2007, 13:03:47 UTC

yes, yes. we "talked it out" last night, but all she did was call me messy (totally preposterous. seriously.) and say that she never wanted ricky in the room because she thought he was "creepy". this is the girl that thinks frat boys are charming. i got a note on my desk this morning telling me to take the recycling out. she has to learn that this is my space too, and i can do with it what i want, even if that means sometimes i forget to clean up a little bit of spilled powder from making hot chocolate.

jennasaisquois November 2 2007, 13:30:22 UTC

she said he was CREEPY? i think you should start hiding all the trash she puts on your desk/etc like maybe under your bed or some place, and then right before christmas break pile it all up and be like "here's your present!!!"

heldxyou_closer November 2 2007, 17:30:07 UTC

HAHAH JENNA.

Ricky's not a creeper, I still think she has sand in her vagina.

Talk to your RA. Can you switch halls with the new semester? Up here we're not allowed to change ROOMIES Spring semester, but we can change buildings. Crazy. I know you like your building though...

I hope you figure it out and are happy. I'll be home again over Thanksgiving, b-t-dubs.

<3

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